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The Juggling Act

A woman's guide to finding the elusive balance with fitness, food, family, and SELF!

Categories: Fitness, Wellness

3 Shockingly Easy Tips for Maintaining Joint Health in Your 40s

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When the celebratory toast to a friend’s birthday or a forkful of anniversary cake is met with muffled groans and rolling eyes, it’s not just about a few candles. The forties are a time when many of us start to experience a gradual increase in both the number and severity of the aches and pains in our joints.

Survey a roomful of forty-something women about their bodies, and you’ll hear about the usual suspects: varicose veins, early signs of osteoporosis, diminished exercise tolerance, and the pesky fingers-grasped-frozen-round-the-handrail – a short flight of stairs a common complaint. But while baby-boomer and millennials alike are informed and motivated about mammograms and bone density testing, few of us think very much about our overall muscle and joint health.

We’re just too busy taking care of other people. The good news is that wisely investing a little time and self-care in your joints can make a huge difference: easing symptoms, buying extra years of joint mobility and function, and potentially staving off big-deal orthopedic surgery in the not-so-distant future.

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Understanding Joint Health in Your 40s

When it comes to staying active and healthy, our joints play a key role. However, when many of us hear about joint health, we might instantly imagine elderly people with arthritis. The truth is, joint issues are more common than we see in popular media. In fact, women, especially, often have less dense bones than men due to hormonal changes, making them more likely to suffer from conditions like osteoporosis, bone fractures, and physical joint problems.

There is no real cure or remedy for weakened joints or poor bone health—it essentially comes down to preventative health to avoid suffering a host of problems later on. This guide is meant to introduce women to preventative care for their joints before they reach the age of 50.

For women, the “silent” form of arthritis is especially common due to hormonal imbalances women can experience. Symptoms might not be visible until age 50, causing women to suddenly feel discomfort in their joints. Non-medical contributors, such as excessive sitting and inactivity during days spent indoors fuel the issue.

Pregnant women are also unlikely to see collagen finished rejuvenating compared to when they were younger due to the lack of energy spent to release the protein. It’s key for young pregnant women to be aware of mild joint health practices, pointing to a more active lifestyle leading up to and following childbirth. Maintaining joint health before “silent” arthritis sets in is especially important.

By increasing daily exercise and maintaining enough vitamins and proteins, pain and joint stiffness associated with age can be offset. Cholesterol balance is another factor. High amounts of cholesterol throughout aging can prevent cartilage from increasing in growth. Regularly checking cholesterol levels can help prevent the onset of mild arthritis.

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Tip 1: Incorporating Joint-Friendly Exercises

Exercise not only maintains a healthy weight and heart health, it can reduce joint discomfort and stiffness. Resistance training that targets muscle groups around specific joints can provide stability and support to the joint, reducing pain and preventing some types of injury. Water-based weight-bearing exercises are one of the best forms of exercise since being in the water takes the pressure off the joints.

Water-based exercises can provide support to a person’s body while they practice different movements. What are even better are the benefits of swimming or being in the water with the resistance of the water to help build back your muscles and surprise your body in different ways.

Focus on exercises that prevent stiffness and improve your range of motion with strength-based workouts. Tai chi and Pilates are both great examples of workout routines for joint health. The exercises can increase flexibility, build strength, enhance balance, and ease the stiffness or aches involved in your joints.

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When starting a new exercise program, take it slow with low-impact activities like morning stretching, tai chi, or yoga. Incorporate rest days to allow your body to heal and prevent injury. You should also contact your primary care physician to guide any exercise routine. They may refer to a physical therapist who can provide you with tools to build your joints and prevent pain.

Be responsible with your routine and make sure to listen to your body! Try to prevent high-impact activities that include sprinting, jumping, or sudden, jarring movements by cozying up your exercise machines and workout plan.

A rest day will provide your body with a chance to recover from any actual stress. Consider combining your workout routines with acupuncture, deep tissue massage, or a first aid bath to maintain the body’s relaxed, rejuvenated, and enhanced range of motion.

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Tip 2: Eating Right for Joint Health

When joint pain starts looking like a frequent visitor, what’s a girl to do? We often think of joint pain as a natural part of aging or a problem experienced mostly by athletes. But aren’t all those fitness and exercise activities that are supposed to keep us healthy also hard on our bodies?

The great news is that good health and preventive practices can come from a combination of non-invasive treatments and smart choices about how we treat our bodies and our joints in particular. And having good relationships with our bodies and how we feel deep down inside is crucial. When what’s happening on the outside doesn’t match up with the vibrancy we feel on the inside, it’s time to get to the bottom of it.

You know what else is key for feeling young and vibrant? Minding the messages our bodies are sending us as we age. So, if you are in your 40s or approaching your mid-40s, it’s also time to take your joints seriously. Significant changes tied to estrogen’s role managing joint health begins to take place in our late 30s and early 40s and lead to years of declining joint health.

Another notable harbinger of joint health concerns in women occurs 15 years or so after our last menstrual period. However, it’s important to understand how to keep our joints in the best possible condition long before both of these periods. After all, these aches and pains made their measured approach silently, without any warning. Our bodies are too sophisticated for ambiguous clues! Let’s take a look at joint health in women.

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Tip 3: Prioritizing Rest and Recovery

By the time we hit our 40s, we begin to recognize the critical importance of rest. All women are unique and have varying levels of activity, but it’s likely that we’re juggling a family and career, too – which makes it even more vital to pay close attention to our time for recovery.

While men and women are both vulnerable to joint issues as they enter middle age, women specifically are at a significantly higher chance of developing RA, which affects different aspects of our lives. If you suspect you have RA, it’s essential to consult with a medical professional.

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This is critical in order to determine your new levels of mobility and the necessary stretching and strengthening exercises for your recovery process. Ensure ample time for rest between workouts, take time to recover and hydrate.

It may also be worth experimenting with natural methods of helping to relieve inflammation in joints, such as balneotherapy – the use of a therapeutic bath. It’s an approach worth exploring if you’re living with RA. I hope this article provides you with the necessary information to promote healthy joints!

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There’s no doubting that the 40s come with an increased likelihood of developing arthritis, irrespective of gender. By the time you reach midlife, the significant role that estrogen has played in maintaining your joint health becomes apparent as the joint pain/discomfort you endure begins to worsen more and more.

Women in particular tend to experience more musculoskeletal problems than men because of their higher body fat composition compared to lean mass. The greater fat mass encourages higher levels of inflammation – a characteristic that worsens as estrogen naturally decreases. The body mass index begins to climb during the early-to-mid 40s, while the muscle mass ratio falls as estrogen and other hormone levels adjust.

Additionally, once a woman reaches 50, there’s a marked hormone decline observed, and symptoms such as weight gain and uncomfortable joints can be attributed to this new balance.

The 40s are also a decade marked by the reduced production of human growth hormone, progesterone, estradiol, and insulin – all of which are critical for a woman to stay healthy, as well as for maintaining her lean body mass and strong bones. Insulin has a direct influence on inflammation and chronic disease development.

Blood sugar levels begin to creep up in the 40s, increasing a woman’s likelihood for developing heart disease, cancer, and type 2 diabetes. Because these different hormone levels contribute to our lifestyle and the way we age, it’s imperative that women take it upon themselves to work with a healthcare provider who understands how all these interacting factors impact the body.

Women can see their lives become more vibrant, energetic, and healthy as they cross over into the next important life stage of aging. Ensuring that your joints aren’t a daily source of worry is an essential first step.

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About the Author: Elizabeth Richey, living and thriving in rural Arkansas, Aquarian and iced coffee enthusiast. When she’s not writing, gardening, playing with her chocolate lab Maple or sharing videos on YouTube (Elizabeth’s Many Adventures) you can find her enjoying time with her family or traveling somewhere new! Most of the time she’s dreaming of being kicked back in her hammock in her cottage garden listening to the birds sing. 

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Categories: Food

Delicious Keto Cheesy Hamburger Casserole Recipe

Guiltless Comfort Food!

Low Carb Cheeseburger Casserole

Check out this keto friendly, low carb recipe that is mostly just ground beef, cheddar cheese, onion soup mix and seasonings!

I was googling and goggling the other day to find an awesomely quick casserole that is keto friendly just to keep my carbs down and protein high and I found this jewel! This came together really quickly and you can see the YouTube video here with the full walk through.

This is all you’ll need for the recipe!

Ground your hamburger meat then drain any grease off! Yuck, we don’t want that stuff!

In a separate bowl mix together your heavy cream, milk and onion soup mix then put your hamburger meat into that. Add half of your cheese and stir well then pour that into a casserole dish. I used an 8×8 pan. Top that with the rest of your shredded cheese!

Bake at 350 degrees for 30-40 minutes, checking it every so often to see if it looks done. You can tell it’s done by lifting up one edge of the pan and you want it to now be a liquidy state anymore and it shouldn’t move much. And you want that cheese on top to be a golden brown layer of deliciousness.

It’s going to be piping hot but scoop you out some and have it soon because it’s amazing! I had this for a lunch so I ate it alone but you could make this as a side for a larger meal and make veggies or something to go with it.

Prep time:  20 mins

Cook time:  40 mins

Total time:  1 hour

Serves: 8 servings

Ingredients

  • Casserole:
  • 1 lb of meat
  • 1 packet Onion Soup Mix
  • 1 bag Cheese of choice
  • Garlic Powder (optional)
  • Topping:
  • 1 Cup Milk
  • ½ Cup Heavy Cream

Instructions

  1. Preheat oven to 350
  2. Brown Meat and drain excess fat
  3. In a bowl mix together your onion soup mix, milk and heavy cream.
  4. Add your cooked meat and half of your shredded cheese to the mixture.
  5. Place in casserole dish
  6. Add remaining cheese evenly on top of mixture
  7. Place in preheated oven
  8. Check on it after 30 minutes and then in 5 minute intervals until done.

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About the Author: Elizabeth Richey, living and thriving in rural Arkansas, Aquarian and iced coffee enthusiast. When she’s not writing, gardening, playing with her chocolate lab Maple or sharing videos on YouTube (Elizabeth’s Many Adventures) you can find her enjoying time with her family or traveling somewhere new! Most of the time she’s dreaming of being kicked back in her hammock in her cottage garden listening to the birds sing. 

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Categories: Fitness, Wellness

Frustrated Feelings Post-Op from Plastic Surgery

-A woman’s thoughts after undergoing a tummy tuck, muscle repair, thigh lift and liposuction at 39 years old after losing 130 lbs.

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When you read stories about or see posts on socials about people having plastic surgeries they’ve dreamed about for years, you really do see the highlight reel. Some people on YouTube with long form content with go into the nitty gritty details of how difficult different parts of the journey are. But what I’ve found with my own recovery from plastics is that it’s way more of a head game than I ever realized.

To clarify, I knew that dealing with pain and the difficulties of everyday life post op with swelling, pain and limited mobility WOULD be difficult and therefore would be a head game. But what nobody warns you about is how much time you have to sit around with your feet propped up for 7-14+ days…just THINKING. During this time, whether your thoughts are negative or positive greatly have to do with each person’s individual personality.

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I consider myself a very positive person but even yet, I had moments of deep self reflection that slanted towards a more negative vibe. I had and still have (20 days post op as I write this) major frustrations with my lack of independence. I would have to say that is probably the biggest mental hurdle for me. In the early days post op I knew I’d need to lean on my husband and even my teenage sons to help me with…almost everything. But now 20 days out, the fact that I still can’t dress myself or reach my feet is SEVERELY frustrating. Because I’m someone who did yoga daily prior to my surgery and have really great flexibility and even as a “plus size” or midsize woman, I could do the splits. So to have had 7 lbs of skin removed from my stomach and yet here I am still unable to even reach out my own fat feet to put shoes or chonies on…I hate it.

Photo of author: my “yogi” body before, with my skin tucked into super tight leggings.

My husband is incredibly helpful and truly a caretaker and giver at heart so he has been nothing but wonderful. But because of the things I still need assistance with, I can’t shower alone for fear I’ll fall in the shower (my fear AND his fear) and I can’t reach everything to dry off and again, I can’t reach my feet to put chonies or pants on! So this has become a nightly routine for us that takes up to an hour that we squeeze in before or after dinner, before our evening chill time and it’s like an exercise session, just trying to get all the things done at the end of the day when I’m the MOST swollen and mentally and physically exhausted from trying to be normal all day!

I wanted to share these thoughts today not only to vent but to warn you, that if you’re considering plastics and you’re a fairly or very independent person, it WILL test you! There will be so many things you just can’t do and you have to throw your hands in the air, say okay, choose acceptance, remind yourself 100x that you chose this for yourself and just TRY to find an inner peace with your lack of abilities. For me personally I am a very productive minded person, I mentally reward myself daily with how many things I can get done in a day and I LOVE being busy, busy and productive working on my 100 goals everyday.

Photos of author 1 day post op with 2 drains.

Recovery has forced me to STOP, to just stop everything. I had paired down my google calendar of my own responsibilities for the first 7 days post op. When week 2 rolled around and my normal full calendar was in front of my face but my body and mind were like “Wait a minute, I still feel like a wounded critter with zero energy and stamina, I can’t do all that!”…I had to re-evaluate. And again, being someone who loves productivity, it kinda broke my heart to realize I had to take another week off from doing the things I enjoy doing.

And in that moment, about day 8, it sunk in and I had all these thoughts:

What if I need more than 2 weeks?

Is that okay, can all these projects wait, can I still meet my March and Q1 goals if I take even more time off? (I am after all a brand new indie author who released her first book 3 weeks ago and I’m solely responsible for promoting it, link here on “How to Start a Successful Freelance Career” if you’re interested! On sale now for just $2.99!!!)

When can I handle returning to my normal life?

How long will this recovery REALLY take?

Why is it taking SO LONG?

And then I have to stop and remind myself why I’m here. I’m here because I had weight loss surgery in 2010 and had a device put in my body (the lap band) to prevent me from over eating to try to take back control of my miserable life in my mid 20s. My weight loss journey was slow and I’d progress for a year then plateau for a year but over the course of 13 years I lost 130 lbs, gained back 30 and maintained the 100 lbs weight loss and was left with a very saggy apron stomach and ripply inner thighs that were a constant reminder of how much fuller my body used to be.

Me in 2010 at 315 lbs at 25 years old and next pic is me pre-op plastics/skin removal surgery, 230 lbs at 39 years old.

So after losing my first 50 lbs I knew I’d want a tummy tuck someday because I personally carried a lot of weight in my stomach, while my butt and thighs were large but also a lot of muscle. It took me many years to realize and accept (and a good scale) that I carry a large muscle mass and not only will I never be 115 lbs, but I’ll also not even ever be 160 lbs because my body isn’t built that way. All my essential stuff in my body (everything excluding fat) comes in around 170 lbs. So my goal weight to maintain has almost always been 190-200 and for some people that is their max weight or before weight. At 230 lbs I wore a size 14 in jeans.

As time went on I knew I’d love to have a thigh lift as well. Finally in 2023, I set out to do everything I possibly could to make this dream a reality and I’d do BOTH at the same time. I had my first plastic surgery consult actually in October 2022 and found out they thought I was a good candidate even though I was a “mid-sized” and wore a size 14, I didn’t have a desire to be a ton smaller. I knew if I lost another 20ish pounds that I’d be happy with that forever. And I wasn’t sure how much my extra skin weighed so I was ready to take those steps.

My plastics journey involved initial excitement in the fall of 2022 and getting really motivated and then the loan I was hoping to get for it didn’t pan out. I worked on my credit and in mid 2023 reapplied and it was approved but they said they couldn’t actually “issue” the loan until 30 days before the surgery and I hadn’t booked it yet so when I went to do that the soonest they had available was November 2023 (that didn’t interfere with my gardening season, something I do as a hobby but also a Youtuber and you can find my gardening Youtube channel here if you’re curious, I also share my plastics journey there!)

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So I went ahead and booked that appointment but when it was 30 days until my surgery we checked back with the loan company and suddenly they could no longer do the loan. To say I was devastated was an understatement. I mean this is something I’d wanted done for 10+ years and it felt like the wheels were finally in motion but then I kept hitting road block after road block. Finally, by the grace of God and many tiny miracles, we had the funds without a loan to pay for my $12,000 surgery in March 2024. When we couldn’t make that Nov surgery date we rescheduled back then and rescheduled for 3/6/24 so the fact that the funds needed hit our bank account on 3/4/24…yeah, miracles!

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The doctor pushed my surgery to 3/8/24 due to his own schedule which was fine by me but nonetheless, here we are and that was my bumpy journey to get here. So when I have those moments of sitting around feeling frustrated and damn near pissed off that I can’t put on my own shoes…I remind myself (and my husband reminds me) of everything I went through to get here, how bad I wanted this, how much I love my results already, etc.

Day 17 post-op, after having the final drain removed this was day 2 of being able to wear a compression garment around my waist which helped greatly to reduce the swelling in my stomach. As I began to see the results, this eases a lot of the negative thoughts.

I didn’t just have a tummy tuck, I had a tummy tuck/skin removal (they removed 7 lbs of skin & fat AND mine was more invasive because my incisions wrap around my hips and go TO my back before it stops), it isn’t just hip to hip or like a c-section scar. I also had major muscle repair because my abdominal wall had split, I had my thigh lift where he removed 2 lbs of skin and fat and then he removed 6 liters of fat from my legs and hips to smooth out my legs to get the best results possible for my thigh lift. So, when you do the math, 6 liters of liquid fat equates to 12 pounds!!!! This guy….removed 12 lbs of fat from my body…via liposuction, that I didn’t even PAY FOR. You hear me? I paid for a tummy tuck and thigh lift and got a discount for doing both together and he said he’d do “some” liposuction for good results and dude takes out 12 pounds! Color me shocked.

But my point is, from having TWO major surgeries AND liposuction, swell hell for me is just going to be a part of my life for 4-6+ weeks. Had I merely had a regular tummy tuck, I’d likely be feeling pretty normal now at day 20. But that isn’t me and I have to remember to not compare myself to others on socials who had plastics, because just because they had skin removal too, if they didn’t have all 3 procedures like me, we are not the same.

Me in my truck on day 19 driving for only the 2nd time feeling super impressed by my much slimmer waist, or “snatched” as the kiddos are calling it these days! I don’t think at any point in my life I remember seeing the seat belt so clearly or visibly…so this is a major none scale victory for this former chubby girl. You can see I’ve still got thick but also swollen thighs and that is to be expected but as much as I love my results, I know I’ll always be a mid-size, thick woman and I have come to finally LOVE my body type and feel like removing the excess skin is getting me to where I wanted to be post weight loss.

I want to point the importance of not comparing yourself to others online because there is a weight loss patient influencer I follow on IG who had the sleeve done 2 years ago and lost 270 pounds (yeah, holy wildness, right!) and on the exact same day as me she went in for surgery also but she had a tummy tuck REVISION, thigh lift REVISION and arm lift. So this was her 2nd or 3rd surgery and the main goal was her arms but she had small revisions done to the other areas. And I’d follow her stories everyday relating to her pain, moods, progress, etc until about day 10 when she got much more mobility and her swelling was down and she was on the road to feeling normal again. I beat myself up mentally for a good few days before venting to my husband. And he was quick to remind me not to compare my journey to anyone else’s and so I just want to share the same advice here.

If you’re in my shoes and you’re having major surgery, even if you’re only having one procedure done…it’s encouraging to find like minded community on socials but remember to NOT compare your recovery to others. Listen to your doctor, listen to body, be gentle with yourself and show yourself grace always. Our bodies are wonderful machines, meant to heal, meant to thrive and if we just follow the post op instructions of staying hydrated and getting ENOUGH movement, our bodies will do the rest!

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About the Author: Elizabeth Richey, living and thriving in rural Arkansas, Aquarian and iced coffee enthusiast. When she’s not writing, gardening, playing with her chocolate lab Maple or sharing videos on YouTube (Elizabeth’s Many Adventures) you can find her enjoying time with her family or traveling somewhere new! Most of the time she’s dreaming of being kicked back in her hammock in her cottage garden listening to the birds sing. 

The author pre-surgery when she felt normal and what she can’t wait to get back to! <3

Categories: Fitness, Wellness

5 Easy Ways to Get More Movement in Your Life

Here are 5 easy ways to get more movement in your life. They say that “at least 150 minutes per week of moderate-intensity aerobic activity” is recommended to life a healthy lifestyle and maintain a healthy heart. I’ve got 5 easy ways to get more movement in your life, that are easy to fit into any fast paced life! That is the curse of our modern advances isn’t it, we have progressed so much that we do and move less physically. So let’s be more mindful about the value and FUN of having more movement in your life!

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A Daily Walk

I’m sure you’re thinking “Oh yeah, just walk” but I really feel like people under-value a good walk. We hear all the time about how running is good for us and people running a 5k or half marathon are “so healthy” but that isn’t what I’m talking about here. I’m talking about just walking laps around the exterior of your house, walk up and down your neighborhood street or walk to town.

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The space around you whether you live in town or in the country, in a home or an apartment building, is going to change what options you have. You could always hop on a treadmill but if you don’t already have one, then it isn’t free and therefore it won’t be easy to start. But you can put on some comfy shoes and just get up and go outside, weather permitting.

For me, even just a 15 minute walk outdoors in natural sunlight can dramatically boost my mood! You will feel your back and thighs begin to loosen if you’re used to sitting behind a desk all day. Whether you are counting miles or steps or not, if you just made an effort to walk around outside for 15+ minutes, it would definitely be a good benefit to your quality of life!

Mini Exercise Bike

Another easy way to get more movement in your life; this one might sound silly to you but I feel like this little mini exercise bike would be more activity than you’d get with out it. Maybe?

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Some of us have desk jobs and if you also work from home you could find yourself stuck in a desk chair 6, 8 or even 12 hours a day. If you make it a priority to go take a walk, that’s wonderful. But if the weather is cold or rainy or maybe you just have 5 minutes before a conference call and you’re feeling pint up, try this!

It’s so small and can slide right under your desk, it’s very affordable on Amazon, for less than $50! You can get one on Amazon in this link here! For such a small investment up front, I say get it to have as a good option. You can stay in your desk chair, maybe spin while on a boring zoom where they don’t need to see you or you’re just there listening but not speaking. It would be considered minor cardio but would definitely get your blood pumpin’ and be good for you!

Park Further Away

I think this is a tip that dieters have been sharing for years and after 14 years of living this practice myself, I have to share it. Park further away, quit circling the lot looking for the closest parking spot to save you 20 ft of walking and this is an easy way to get more movement in your life.

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Why? Why are we so concnerned about saving ourselves 20 feet coming and going? Are you in THAT much of a rush? I mean…if you don’t WANT to walk 20 feet…I’m going to bet you’d probably really benefit from it, as we all would. I like to park in the back half of the parking lot although not all the way down there because my kids complain about it. But then you’re just adding more and more steps to your day, doing the same thing you were already there doing but yet getting MORE movement in your life!

Pick up your Groceries Yourself

I know that curb side pick up has become a life saver and time saver for a lot of us post-2020!

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But if you have been doing pick up orders for 1+ years now, do you ever think about how many physical steps you’re missing out on in your life by not doing it anymore?

Imagine this, you used to go grocery shopping once a week and you’d walk around the store on average about 45 minutes gathering up everything on your list. For the average person that is 5000 steps and around 2 miles of walking!!!! Okay think about it…

If you did that weekly for a year you’d be getting:

2340 minutes of activity a year

or 39 hours of activity a year

by walking 104 miles to get your groceries around the market

Think about how much that adds up! Ever since you QUIT getting your groceries yourself, you’ve given up 104 miles of walking per year that you were probably getting before! And granted if you were more conservative and got groceries bi-weekly you’re still looking at 20 hours of activity and 50+ miles of movement in your life! Go back to it! Do like I do and use the Walmart app all week to track what I need and make my list because it also saves my favorites and all items bought. Then I just GO and get groceries myself unless I have a particularly time crunched day.

I know you’re probably busy, we all are and it’s such a curse of our current culture and “progression” but if you can make the time on a Saturday with your kids or maybe go alone as me-time…add that activity back to your life!

Have a Dance Party Every Day

Likely another under-rated option…a solo or partner dance party!!

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I recently added this to my life in the last few month and every weekday morning it gets my day started out on the right foot! I opt to do a solo and private dance party when I’m getting dressed and doing my make-up for the day. I use ear buds and have a playlist on my phone of hype music that have positive lyrics, amped vibes and always makes me feel HAPPY and energetic!

I dance around my room to 3-4 specific songs each morning as I get ready and even after I’m dressed, I’m just vibing out with myself in the morning. When I end I’ve almost started to get a sweat on and I’m ALWAYS in a good mood! Give this one a go and comment below and let me know what your favorite hype song is, I’d love to hear from you!

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About the Author: Elizabeth Richey, living and thriving in rural Arkansas, Aquarian and iced coffee enthusiast. When she’s not writing, gardening, playing with her chocolate lab Maple or sharing videos on YouTube (Elizabeth’s Many Adventures) you can find her enjoying time with her family or traveling somewhere new! Most of the time she’s dreaming of being kicked back in her hammock in her cottage garden listening to the birds sing. 

Categories: Fitness

Prepare to Run a 5K

If you’ve ever been encouraged or motivated by someone who ran a 5k and wish you could too, then this is the article for you on how to get started! It’s easy to prepare to run a 5k in 12 weeks, it just takes some organized planning and commitment.

The #1 Tip to prepare to run a 5k is to just…get started!!! Before you can do anything or change anything, you have to be motivated to get up and move! So if you need to buy some decent shoes, then get them. Try not to make too many excuses to hold yourself back. Do you feel like there is something stopping you? If so, what can you tell yourself to combat that issue?

When you are either a couch potato or just can’t walk through Walmart without getting tired, then you need to build up your endurance. Endurance not only refers to your muscles but also your lung stamina and endurance (strengthening your ability to breath while exerting yourself), to prepare to run a 5k.

The biggest secret to prepare to run a 5k is to obsess over the numbers! By that I mean you want to time yourself and start small. You’re going to stretch pretty good then go for a walk and after walking for 2 minutes you’re going to lightly job for 30 or 60 seconds.

Start where ever you are and move up from there. If you can handle 30 seconds straight then push yourself to get to 60 seconds. If you have a really hard time getting to 30 seconds then just start there and focus on improving that over time!

So you’re going to walk 2 minutes, jog 30-60 seconds, walk 2 minutes, jog 30-60 seconds. You repeat this as long as you can. For example, if you have 20 minutes to work out then you’d get in 6-7 cycles. Make sure you stretch again after every run, as this helps reduce the odds of muscle injury!

You might keep this same routine for 1-3x and then plan to increase your 30 second run to a 60 second run or that 60 second run to 90 seconds of running! So again you could be graduating up to the follow:

Walk 2 minutes, run 60 seconds, walk 2 minutes, run 60 seconds, repeat.

Walk 2 minutes, run 90 seconds, walk 2 minutes, run 90 seconds, repeat.

One great thing to help prepare to run a 5k is to use a Smart Watch! Any type of wearable tech is going to be super handy for a new fitness routine! I personally love mine and use it almost daily for yoga, dancing, walking, etc and that’s just on the exercise front, it does so much more!

I highly recommend the Samsung Galaxy watch and you can find it here on Amazon!

You also want to use some good headphones but keep in mind if you’re running outside only have one headphone in as you need to be aware of sounds and traffic around you! Safety first!

Your Chart for improvements could look something like this if you did a 20 minutes walk/run 3x a week.

Week 1: Stretch, Walk 2 minutes, Run 30 seconds, Walk 2 minutes, repeat 7x, end with walking then stretch.

Week 2: Stretch, Walk 2 minutes, Run 60 seconds, Walk 2 minutes, repeat 7x, end with walking then stretch.

Week 3: Stretch, Walk 2 minutes, Run 90 seconds, Walk 2 minutes, repeat 5x, end with walking then stretch.

Week 4: Stretch, Walk 2 minutes, Run 2 minutes, Walk 2 minutes, repeat 4x, end with walking then stretch.

After the First Month

By now you’ve stuck with this routine for a month and not only are you running for a solid 120 seconds, which is awesome, but you’ve also just stuck with it! Consistency is the key to accomplishing any goal! Once you stick with anything for 30+ days you are well on your way! Good job!

Week 5: Stretch, Walk 2 minutes, Run 3 minutes, Walk 1 minutes, repeat 3x, end with walking then stretch.

Week 6: Stretch, Walk 2 minutes, Run 4 minutes, Walk 1 minutes, repeat 2x, end with walking then stretch.

Week 7: Stretch, Walk 2 minutes, Run 6 minutes, Walk 1 minutes, repeat 2x, end with walking then stretch.

Week 8: Stretch, Walk 2 minutes, Run 8 minutes, Walk 1 minutes, repeat 1x, end with walking then stretch.

Now that you’ve stuck with it for 60 days and gradually added wins on top of wins you are more than likely running a solid 8 minutes at once! Can you believe that!? You are officially a runner now!

Week 9: Stretch, Walk 1 minutes, Run 10 minutes, Walk 1 minutes, repeat 1x, end with walking then stretch.

After Week 9

Once you get to this point you can increase your run either by 2 minutes or 5 minutes, whatever you feel like you can handle. If you have several months before you get to your 5k, then take your time and add 1-2 minutes per week and just go with it!

I highly recommend you add 2 minutes at a time because by now you’ve noticed how when you’re running for 6-8 minutes you really get into a roll with it, most things feel numb and you feel robotic! So after you get into that run flow, it’s easy to go 2 more minutes!

Statistically a “relatively healthy” person in “average shape” runs a mile in 9-10 minutes. So at week 9 of your training you could be completing 2 miles or more during your training! A 5k is 3.1 miles now that you’ve built up the muscles and endurance to run 8-10 minutes at a time, likely almost an entire mile, now you need to set mileage goals.

If you are running a solid 10 minutes then you are probably doing a mile so this is how I’d shape my next several weeks:

Week 10: Stretch, Walk 1/2 mile, run 1 & 1/2 miles, walk 1/2 mile to cool down, stretch.

Week 11: Stretch, Walk 1/2 mile, run 2 miles, walk 1/2 mile to cool down, stretch.

Week 12: Stretch, Walk 1/2 mile, run 2 & 1/2 miles, walk 1/2 mile to cool down, stretch.

Week 13: Stretch, Walk 1/2 mile, run 3 miles, walk 1/2 mile to cool down, stretch.

You’ve ran a 5k!!!!! The day you can jog or run 3 or 3.1 miles, that is your k5! Once you’ve built up the stamina and endurance to do that, you can do it again and again! So if you’re starting from super basic, you can be 5k ready within 12-13 weeks, depending on how hard you push yourself!

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Categories: Fitness

Life after weight loss surgery

16 Things I’ve learned after having the lap band weight loss surgery done 13 years ago! What life is like after weight loss surgery long term.

Hi! My name is Elizabeth and welcome to my cozy spot on the inter webs! I had the lap band weight loss surgery in June 2010 when I was just 25 years old!

Here are my before photos and what the lap band actually looks like!

If you’d like to learn more here is my original article where I shared a part of my story!

So cut to I was 25, over 300 pounds, a single mom to two boys under 5 and I was…miserable. I feel like I was the worst of the worst, self hating and self loathing. I even despised myself, hated my reflection, horrible negative self talk, binge eater, emotional eater, etc.

So I had the surgery after losing 20 lbs pre-op. Then the first 18 months I was able to SLOWLY lose about 30 lbs. It did NOT happen quickly for me! I was diligent with exercise, began running, trained for a half marathon but my food was always a mess. I made poor choices, still was an emotional eater, I’d binge and throw up often, etc. It took me until 2016 to really begin to face my inner demons that lead to my eating issues.

It took years of cutting out bad habits like smoking cigarettes, cutting out soda and cutting out sugary energy drinks! And then eventually cutting out sweet tea, is what it took to lose 130 lbs total after 10 years! I was able to maintain that weight loss for 18 months. The photos below of are that time, at my lowest. The photos below are from 2019 and 2020. Previously, my regular pattern had been to lose 15-20 lbs every two years or so. I’d spend a long time at a new lower weight before I’d move beyond it. I’m not sure if that was physical or just all mental for me. But I will note that since 2016, all my efforts to lose weight have centered around food, I rarely ever made fitness a priority as well.

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Here is where I am today! A 38 year old mom with 7 kids in our blended family, ranging from 7 to 23. We have our first grand baby on the way! I always told myself my long term health goals were to be a FIT AND HEALTHY GRAMA and now here it is, time to be a grama! So in the summer of 2023 I really started making my internal health and overall fitness my MAIN concern!

Although I have the lap band and I can’t eat huge amounts of food on most days, can’t drink soda or eat bread…I can still consume too many calories. I can also choose to be inactive because I have a desk job and without effort, I only get about 1200 steps in per day!

These days I’m doing yoga, circuit training and a 2 mile walk EVERY day! I do allow myself a rest day when I’m tired or if I’m sick, but if I PLAN to commit to it every day, I’ve found it much easier to have consistency!

I’ve lost 14 lbs and over 24″ off of my entire body! I’ve gone down a pant size and improved my overall fitness and stamina by A LOT! These days actual fitness is THE goal! I started a new line of multi vitamins and now I aim to get 100+ grams of protein per day to properly feed my body and help build muscle!

Now that I’ve explained who I am, how I got here and how I know what I know…let’s jump into it!

17 Things I’ve learned after having the lap band weight loss surgery done 13 years ago!

  1. You Throw up a lot! Whether this is only the first year or two for you or you struggle with it more long term like I have, odds are you’re going to throw up more than you ever have in your life combined! With a lap band, you will throw up if you eat too fast, don’t chew food well enough, try to drink after eating (too soon), or you’re having a random “tight band day” and something you can usually eat slowly now you can’t! For me I threw up a lot the first 4 years strictly due to being too stubborn to follow all the rules. Then I tried to be better about the rules but would still have issues randomly due to weather or random tightness of the band. At this point, I can tell if food is stuck and will go down or if it’s going to HAVE to come back up. Sadly, I’d consider myself an expert thrower-upper. Which leads to my next point.

2. A weight loss surgery could potentially ruin your teeth! Due to all that throwing up and not being fully aware of how BAD that is for your teeth, I was told 10 years post op that I had the teeth of a “crack head” by a Dentist. He wasn’t being rude but rather explaining how sever the damage was to my teeth. I had also gone this entire time without health insurance or dental insurance so I hadn’t had regular check ups so by the time I made it in, I needed 3 years worth of restoration work, 4 teeth pulled, 3 root canals and countless cavities! Had I simply just brushed my teeth after throwing up each time, the damage could have been so much less.

3. You can’t drink or eat fast! Get used to doing everything slow and being what my kids lovingly call “a sloth eater”, haha! If you try to drink more than an ounce or two of water at a time, you will feel it hang up in your throat and take it’s precious time to go down. That feels weird so I try not to do it. If I eat too fast, I will eat 4 bites and be stuck and unable to eat anything else.

So I have to be especially careful of this when we go out to eat at restaurants because I don’t want to just sit there and play with my food for 20 minutes while the rest of my family eats, while I’m stuck on food. Some days I just do really well and others I find myself rushing and I have to be intentional and mindful about slowing down so I don’t choke, gag, get stuck or have to throw up.

4. You learn what eating DRY is and you’ll probably hate it forever. It means that when you plan to eat you have to consciously STOP drinking 20-30 minutes before, do not drink while you eat and do not drink for 30 minutes AFTER to you finish eating. So your 15-20 minutes of eating turns into an hour long, no drinking, dry mouth “event”…multiple times a day. Most of the time it doesn’t bother me as I’ve grown used to this but if I have a particularly salty meal, it drives me insane. My husband is one who actually drinks a ton WHILE eating and he says he would never be able to do it, just because of that one rule. And the thing is if you break that rule and eat a few bites then try a drink of water…oh Lord!

Prepare yourself for what feels like a huge clump of goal about mid esophagus and then intense pressure as this liquid is trying to move past food that is still slowly sitting there because the band prevents it from just slipping right down into the stomach. It is intensively painful and most often will result in the food and liquid being pushed full force back UP your esophagus and you damn near projectile vomiting. I’ve been mindless numerous times over 13 years and just completely forgot this rule and man is this unpleasant!

5. You can only drink very small amounts of liquids for forever. Some say you can’t or shouldn’t use a straw either but I’ve pretty much always broken this rule because I have no issue with it. If I am working out outside or working in my garden and I attempt to guzzle a glass of water, my esophagus will spasm and the LIQUID can literally get hung up in my throat. Because the thing is, it has to pool and “filter” through that lap-band, too. Yes, it is liquid but if you put 10-15 ounces in your esophagus, just keep in mind it will hit a slight delay at the band and have to funnel through basically.

When your esophagus is full it hurts because it isn’t intended to hold food or liquid. So instead you’ll find yourself sipping 1-2 ounces all throughout the day and if you’re shooting to get 90-100 ounces of water per day, you can see how that quickly adds up to an all day long event you have to be mindful of everyday…for the rest of your life! Or else you’ll be dehydrated and dehydrated bodies don’t shed fat, lose weight or build muscle properly because they’re in survival mode.

6. Weight loss isn’t guaranteed. Almost all types of weight loss surgeries you can sabotage yourself and your results by “cheating” and breaking rules. These rules are put into place to help increase your odds of being successful and when all or most aren’t followed, you could not only not lose weight but you can gain weight as well. For a lap band patient, we have things known as slider foods and these are foods like chips, pasta and ice cream that just slide right through the band no matter how tight it is so the band cannot help to restrict how many of these we eat. So when it comes to any known slider food, we still have to use 100% self control.

7. You will need to be on supplements the rest of your life! For lap band patients they tell us to avoid pills at all costs and so we are encouraged to be on a liquid multi-vitamin for the rest of our lives. I personally am able to take pills as long as they aren’t giant so I take a handful of daily supplements as well as a full spectrum powder that I dissolve in water and take daily. I combine this with fiber so I can get some added fiber each day and the brands I use are below. The powder vitamin I use is formulated for lap band patients but anybody can use it, you can get it here on Amazon!

8. You will fight the hydration battle daily for the rest of your life! Due to the limited amount we’re able to drink at once, if you are hoping to be healthy and feel good and especially trying to actively lose weight, then your hydration level will matter to you. So when it does matter to you, you will constantly by finding ways to sneak in more water, ways to encourage and remind yourself to stick to it, etc.

I personally have found this method of using 3 different canisters that each hold 30 oz. When I finish the first one I have a little mini party for myself internally and go fill up my 2nd one. Glancing over on my desk to see which cup is on my desk tells me if I’m on the 1st, 2nd or 3rd round of 30 oz. Honestly, even with as much thought as I put into it everyday, 13 years post op, I still find myself regularly consuming 30-50 oz of water per day! It is something I’m always striving to improve because I know my body needs the water.

9. Weight loss COULD be very slow. There are a lot of people who either share their journey on blogs, YouTube or social media or just that you end up seeing online or in ads who seem to have a weight loss surgery and are down 50-80 lbs in 3-6 months and they’re just breaking all the records and excelling. Just know that those people likely make up maybe 20% of weight loss patients. And their results are based on multiple factors, including what type of surgery they had, are they malnourished, are they exercising, etc. So one of the first hurdles you’ll have to overcome is how to NOT compare yourself to others. Follow the rules, learn to listen to your body, conquer the inner demons and slowly but surely you’ll get there.

10. Mental work or therapy will likely be required. Speaking of those inner demons, this is a really important part. Back when I had my surgery in 2010 my health insurance did pay for it and so I was required to do a pre-op psychological evaluation and post-op therapy. I’m really thankful for this now because that therapy post-op taught me a lot about myself, I had a lot of realizations about myself and each break-through I’m really thankful for. These moments really did change my life and pivot me onto my next leg of success on this journey. The most important thing you will have to accept is that saying “I’m just fat because I like (love) food” is an external excuse, it is NEVER the REASON anyone is over weight.

We all have our own reasons, some of the may be the same. But the point is that you will HAVE to find your reason, what motivated you to eat, what encourages you to eat, how do you feel when you eat, why do you not want to be healthy, why do you not choose to be active, etc. You’ll have to dive deep either on your own or with a therapist on these issues or else every step you try to make in weight loss will feel like you’re dragging a 200 lbs body behind you…free yourself of the mental baggage and discover your WHY. Why did you eat so much?

11. People will judge you. It doesn’t really matter where you live, how your family is or how open of an area you think you live in, people WILL judge you for having a weight loss surgery. It doesn’t mean that everybody is hating on you and even if they were, that really shouldn’t be your concern. My point here is only to point out there you will be faced with a large percentage of people who do not understand your path and your choices and will likely tell you about it. You need only be prepared for this by being prepared to stand up for yourself and honor your choices.

12. You may never eat bread again. This is one that my sister tells me would be a deal breaker for her. Now technically, I CAN eat bread. However, if I do eat bread, I may get 3-4 bites in, it gets stuck in my throat, I’m in pain or throwing up and I can’t eat anything else and nothing has reached my stomach so I’m also starving while in pain and it’s just…not fun. So because of this, about 8 years ago I actually gave up bread 90% of the time. I have had maybe 3 bites of pancakes in the last 5 years, because I do miss those. If I order a burger somewhere I’ll do half bun or no bun, if I order Subway I’ll do have bun or no bun. I also really miss biscuits and gravy!

13. You may not be able to eat certain types of meat anymore. Now this one is very person specific and I’m not sure what causes it other than a picky band or stomach. I haven’t been able to eat steak since I was banded. On most days, I can’t eat shredded pork or pork ribs and I’d have to say those I miss the most. I can do shredded chicken or any kind of ground meat but even shredded chicken I have to make sure to chew very carefully. This is another reason why we have to be on supplements the rest of our lives and also protein supplements like shakes and powders. Because the weight loss surgery makes us less likely to be able to tolerate some sources of high protein.

14. Potential Medical Issues. Each weight loss surgery comes with risks and I can only speak to the lap-band but one thing I want to mention that people don’t often talk about are the teeth damage, potentially leading to bulimic type traits and malnutrition. Just because someone is skinny or lost weight, does not mean they’re healthy. So let’s stop this idea of worshiping body types and rather be transparent and praise people’s actual entire efforts to be healthy and fit, even if they aren’t a size2 or 8.

More known and discussed issues are lap bands slipping, which means they slide up the stomach to be where they aren’t supposed to be. Your port can also come undone and have to be re-stitched. Some people can end up with inflammation and complete obstruction and have to have an emergency surgery to remove or repair the lap-band. All important issues to make yourself aware of!

15. The cost of repair or reversal. This is just something to be aware of, if you have a medical issue and need your band repaired or fixed, it’s close to the same price and usually NOT covered on insurance (these days, 2023). Right now the going rate is anywhere between $8,000 and $12,000 to have it removed or repaired.

16. Eating well and staying active will still always have to be a life long dedication to maximize health. Having any weight loss surgery is not a quick fix nor is it any fix at all. It is merely an additional tool to help you overcome the mental struggles that got you to where you are now. So whether you’re at pre-op day 60, post-op day 100 or 13 years out like me, you still have to make the conscious effort every single day to get up and choose YOU! Get up and choose to prioritize your health, make good choices, find more movement, be more active, take those vitamins, eat more greens, etc. It doesn’t mean your life has to be completely different but honestly, a lot of times our lives do end up looking completely different AND we’re a ton happier!

So just keep in mind, surgery or not, going from morbidly obese to healthy and fit is a life long daily choice we each have to make. Keep it interesting by trying new hobbies or exercises when something gets old! You could do yoga for 3 months then switch it up with a dance class or kick boxing or maybe even do a swimming class. The key is movement and continually trying new foods and recipes so you don’t get bored or stuck in a meal planning rut that leads to binging. Just remember this isn’t a temporary diet to get through and be done with…this is just the rest of your life!

And it could be the BEST part of your life!!!

It could be the best thing you ever do for yourself!

If you’d like the full back story on who I am check out my original article where I shared a part of my story!

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Elizabeth Richey

About the Author: Elizabeth Richey, living and thriving in rural Arkansas, Aquarian and iced coffee enthusiast. When she’s not writing, gardening, playing with her chocolate lab Maple or sharing videos on YouTube (Elizabeth’s Many Adventures) you can find her enjoying time with her family or traveling somewhere new! Most of the time she’s dreaming of being kicked back in her hammock in her cottage garden listening to the birds sing. 

Categories: Family, Fitness, Food, Wellness

Welcome to my world

Welcome to my cozy corner of the web! I want to start out this new home online by sharing with you a little bit about myself and why I was motivated to launch this blog in the first place! I’m 38 years old, I’m a mom to 2 biological children and 5 step children, 3 of which are grown and 4 we’re still actively raising, ranging from ages 7 to 23.

My family and I are located in Arkansas on a quaint 6 acre small family farm just a few miles down the road from where my family on my dad’s side settled here 9 generations ago! Our family roots in this community are deep and strong but I did spend 22 years of my life in Arizona living south of Phoenix and loved it! So that time in the desert definitely shaped who I am today!

I love home life and mom life, cleaning and cooking and DIY’ing anything in my spare time but I don’t have much spare time as I’m the classic over-achiever! I’ve been an entrepreneur for 13 years now, working in real estate and finance. I own my own consulting firm that I launched in 2019 and it has happily kept my plate full ever since! But in my spare time I love writing, gardening, redecorating our house for the 100th time, reading, hiking, going on nature walks, playing with our 1 year old chocolate lab Maple or canoodling our adorable barn cats Ernesto and Sterling!

A lot of us get to an age where we decide we need to take better care of ourselves so that we can be healthy grandparents or just feel good in our older years. For me, that concern started when I was in my early 20s, a single mom to two little boys and morbidly obese, as seen below.

So in 2010 after much research and inner turmoil, I had a bariatric (weight loss) surgery to help me lose weight. At the time my children were 4 and 6 years old and I was only 25 years old so I wasn’t sure if I’d ever have more children so I opted for the lapband surgery as the band itself is adjustable. Which means, they could remove saline from the band to allow me to eat more if I were to get pregnant, so I could have a healthy pregnancy. Plus all other weight loss surgery options then were newer and very invasive and very…permanent. So I went with the band.

It looks something like this!

My journey with my health, weight loss, healing, personal discovery and self love is such a long one I actually wrote a book about it, but have yet to finish it! Keep an eye out for that in 2024! But I’ll sum up my journey and say, I took me 13 years to lose 130 pounds. My weight loss was very slow, I’d sit at a weight for 1-2 years before I’d progress another 10-15 pounds. In the process I was tackling a lot of inner demons, working on myself and breaking bad habits one at a time. I knew this had to be a slow, permanent lifestyle change for me. I learned how to actually cook, learned about nutrition and exercise, learned how our body actually functions on the inside (still learning more on that all the time actually), I quit sodas in 2010, quit cigarettes for vaping in 2016, quit a monster energy drink addiction in 2017, quit sweet tea in 2019 and finally quit all nicotine (vaping) in 2023 ending a 20 year addiction!

I learned a lot about myself during this time but the biggest thing I learned was that I LOVED being active! I became an athlete for the first time in my life, completing my first 5k in 2011 and my first half marathon in 2012! I also picked up Tennis and wasn’t too bad at it, fell in love with hiking and exploring and just haven’t quit! Then in 2016 I started yoga and that lead to daily yoga for 18 months which was the most transformational time in my life! I happily call myself a yogi and a hiker, because these things make my soul happy!

In 2019 when I cut out sweet tea, I lost an additional 30 lbs from where I had been sitting for a good 2 or 3 years and that put me down at my lowest I’ve ever been! The pictures below are me at my lowest and I was there 12-14 months. I honestly don’t expect to ever be this size again as my band was really tight during that time and I don’t believe I was consuming enough calories to actually BE HEALTHY.

For reference, here is where I am today in late 2023, 50 pounds heavier! Hint, I had all the fluid removed from my lap band in December 2019 and I immediately began gaining because really I hadn’t become more mindful, the band just hardly ever let me eat and that’s how I got down to my lowest weight. Above I was not exercising, I was not eating well, I was not taking care of myself. Within 3 months I had gained 50 lbs!!!! I know, shocked me too! And then I’ve been working to lose the same 10 pounds for the last 3 years, literally! But by working I mean not really working but just mad about it all the time and unhappy in my clothes although NOT hating myself because I have a lot of grace for this body after all we’ve been through!

The difference is that where I am today is an “almost 40 year old” woman, the number on the scale no longer matters to me and my ultimate goal is physical fitness and internal health as well as mental health! And so I’m starting this blog 45 days after starting a new lifestyle change with myself where I’m actually tracking my food, protein, water, sleep, steps, exercises, etc. I started a powder vitamin I add to water daily to make sure I’m getting all my nutrients since my lap band restricts how much I can eat, I set a goal to eat 100+ grams of protein per day to build muscle and burn fat, I’m doing yoga, strength training and walking daily! My steps have gone from 1500 a day having a work from home desk job to now meeting 8000 per day since I walk 2 miles a day!

So my goal for this blog is to share not my journey but rather the tips I learn along the way that could help you too! I want to meet you where you are and if you’re here because you came across a research article comparing Samsung wearable or because I shared an amazing low-carb, family friendly recipe…then welcome! I’m glad you’re here! I feel like in order for each of us to be well rounded and really taking care of all parts of ourselves, we need to remember the mind, our inner peace and that inner happiness! So I’ll be sharing tips on ways I discover that make it easier to be mindful, how to be present, the benefits of meditation, apps to use, etc. And I hope you find it all so interesting and useful that you subscribe to my blog and the email list and enjoy every article I post! Please do comment on an article if you have a question, insight, encouragement or love to give!

Thanks for being here!

You matter!

xoxo,

Elizabeth

Hi there! I'm a 38 year old mom who is constantly striving to find the balance between physical fitness, health, enjoying good food, quality time with my family and remembering to also take care of my self and inner happiness! I'm here to share tips from the good days when I'm able to strike that elusive balance!

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